“I’m fine with gay people, but there are only 2 genders.”

It’s not about you.

“I am fine with a woman being on this board, but I’m not fine with it all of the sudden being all women.”

It’s not about you.

‘I’m fine with gay marriage, but I just don’t want see them kissing.”

It’s not about you.

“I’m fine with religious freedom, but my nation will always be a Christian nation.”

It’s not about you.

“I’m fine with people speaking another language, but when they are around me, they better speak English.”

It’s not about you.

“I’m fine with giving money to homeless folks, but they better not use my money for drugs.”

It’s not about you.

“I’m fine with single parents being on welfare, but I need to know that they are working.”

It’s not about you.

“I’m fine with Black Lives Matter, but they better not block traffic when I am trying to get home from work.”

It’s not about you.

“I’m fine with Native Americans having their own spaces, but I don’t want to hear them asking for ‘land back’. That stuff was a long time ago, it’s over.”

It’s not about you.

“I’m fine with Asian people doing my nails, but they better not speak their language to each other because I always get worried they are making fun on me.”

It’s not about you.

“If people want to be fat, I’m fine with that. But I hate when they ask for accommodations at our community meetings like a special chair or something. It’s their fault they are fat – I mean just eat less.”

It’s not about you.  

“I mean, if people are depressed, fine. But my friend ___ always cancels plans with me and that is super rude.”

It’s not about you.

Catch my drift?